写作思路：可以写自己和爸爸之间因为小狗在阳台的地砖上撒了一泡尿从而引发了矛盾，最终和爸爸化解了矛盾。
正文：
Dad often said to me: "do things from each other's point of view." Every time I turn a deaf ear to that.
爸爸经常对我说：“做事情要多从对方的角度考虑。”我每次都把这话当耳旁风。
One day, the naughty dog pissed on the tile on the balcony. Father saw it in the room and asked me to wipe it off. I picked up the rag and wiped it several times, but my father kept saying, "I didn't wipe it clean. Wipe it again." I am very aggrieved: clearly clean, why still let me clean? My father said angrily, "if I say yes, then yes. Why don't you wipe it?"
有一天，顽皮的小狗在阳台的地砖上撒了一泡尿。父亲在房间里看见了，让我赶紧去擦掉。我拿起抹布擦了好几遍，可父亲一直说：“没擦干净，再擦一下。”我十分委屈：明明擦干净了，为什么还让我擦？父亲则火冒三丈地说：“我说有就是有，你为什么不擦？”
At this time, my father came, he first sprinkled a few drops of water on the balcony tiles, and then asked me: "can you see the drops now?" I looked at it. Why can't I see it? "Dad said:" you stand to the father's position to have a look
这时，爸爸走过来，他先把几滴水洒在阳台的地砖上，然后问我：“你现在能看见水滴吗？”我看了看，咦，怎么看不见？爸爸又说：“你再站到父亲那个位置看一下。”
I went over, eh, why did I see it again? Dad said with a kind face:
"water will reflect light, dripping on the white tiles, you can't see it
in the front, you can see it from the side." My father and I suddenly
realized and apologized to each other.
我走过去，咦，怎么又看见了？爸爸和颜悦色地说：“水是会反光的，滴在白色的地砖上，你在正面看不见，站在侧面就看见了。”我和父亲都恍然大悟，互相道了歉。
Through this fight, I
finally understand what my father used to say to me: think more from
other people's point of view. Maybe there are different views from
another angle!
通过这次吵架，我终于明白了爸爸以前经常对我讲的话：要多从别人的角度考虑问题。也许换个角度就有不同的观点呢！
写作思路：写出自己与父亲的矛盾，把前因后果都写清楚，最后写出自己的处理办法。
正文：
A week ago, my father and I had a big conflict, and today I am still angry! Readers may ask, "what's the big contradiction?" Well, let me tell you about it slowly.
前一星期前，我和爸爸闹了个不小的矛盾，直到今天我还正在生气呢 !读者们可能会问：“是什么大矛盾啊?” 唉，让我来慢慢给你们说说吧。
I have a bad habit - hunchback. This bad habit came into being when I was very young, and it hasn't been corrected by the age of 11. When I was a child, my mother didn't pay attention to me because she didn't know the danger of the hump at that time. Until now, she has realized that the hump is the cause of the problems such as short legs, short-sightedness and so on.
我有一个坏习惯一驼背，这坏习惯在我很小的时候就有了的，到11岁时都还没有改正。小时候妈妈并没有理我，是因为那时妈妈不知这驼背的危险性，到现在才明白，什么长短腿，长不高，近视等问题都是这驼背引起的。
Father beat every day, mother scolded every day, but I still can't correct it. This habit, however, caused a big contradiction between me and my father. On this day, my father once again found that I was hunched when I was doing my homework. He was so angry that he hit me hard and made me scream in pain.
爸爸天天打，妈妈天天骂，但我还是改正不了，这不，就这个习惯，却引起了我与爸爸的一一个大矛盾。这一天，爸爸又一次发现我写作业时背又驼了。他大发雷霆，一下子狠狠地打了我一下，痛得我哇哇大叫。
That doesn't count! My father also gave me a general order: "from now on, if you don't correct the bad habit of hunchback, you will practice sitting posture for 4 hours every day!
这还不算呢!爸爸还给我下了个将军令：“从今以后 ，如果你没有改正驼背这个坏习惯的话，你就天天给我练坐姿4个小时!
And can't watch TV, play computer, can read a book only This general's order really hurt me. I not only have to practice sitting posture all day, but also can't watch TV without seeing it! During the break time, I can only read some Pediatrics books from the old bookcase. It's really hard.
而且不能看电视，玩电脑，只能够看书!”这个将军令一下，可真害苦了我，整天不仅要练坐姿，还不能看电视而不见!休息时间时我只能从旧书箱里看点儿小儿科的书，日子可真不好过。
Never let the students see that I am still reading this kind of book, otherwise the students will laugh me to death! It's been a week, but the conflict between my father and me still hasn't been resolved. Readers, who can give us a good prescription?
绝不能让同学看到了我还在看这种书，要不然同学们会笑死我的!这事已经过去一个星期了，但我和爸爸之间的矛盾还是没有化解掉，各位小读者们，谁能给我们这俩父子出个好药方?
写作思路：写出自己与父亲的矛盾，把前因后果都写清楚，最后写出自己的处理办法。
正文：
A week ago, my father and I had a big conflict, and today I am still angry! Readers may ask, "what's the big contradiction?" Well, let me tell you about it slowly.
前一星期前，我和爸爸闹了个不小的矛盾，直到今天我还正在生气呢 !读者们可能会问：“是什么大矛盾啊?” 唉，让我来慢慢给你们说说吧。
I have a bad habit - hunchback. This bad habit came into being when I was very young, and it hasn't been corrected by the age of 11. When I was a child, my mother didn't pay attention to me because she didn't know the danger of the hump at that time. Until now, she has realized that the hump is the cause of the problems such as short legs, short-sightedness and so on.
我有一个坏习惯一驼背，这坏习惯在我很小的时候就有了的，到11岁时都还没有改正。小时候妈妈并没有理我，是因为那时妈妈不知这驼背的危险性，到现在才明白，什么长短腿，长不高，近视等问题都是这驼背引起的。
Father beat every day, mother scolded every day, but I still can't correct it. This habit, however, caused a big contradiction between me and my father. On this day, my father once again found that I was hunched when I was doing my homework. He was so angry that he hit me hard and made me scream in pain.
爸爸天天打，妈妈天天骂，但我还是改正不了，这不，就这个习惯，却引起了我与爸爸的一一个大矛盾。这一天，爸爸又一次发现我写作业时背又驼了。他大发雷霆，一下子狠狠地打了我一下，痛得我哇哇大叫。
That doesn't count! My father also gave me a general order: "from now on, if you don't correct the bad habit of hunchback, you will practice sitting posture for 4 hours every day!
这还不算呢!爸爸还给我下了个将军令：“从今以后 ，如果你没有改正驼背这个坏习惯的话，你就天天给我练坐姿4个小时!
And can't watch TV, play computer, can read a book only This general's order really hurt me. I not only have to practice sitting posture all day, but also can't watch TV without seeing it! During the break time, I can only read some Pediatrics books from the old bookcase. It's really hard.
而且不能看电视，玩电脑，只能够看书!”这个将军令一下，可真害苦了我，整天不仅要练坐姿，还不能看电视而不见!休息时间时我只能从旧书箱里看点儿小儿科的书，日子可真不好过。
Never let the students see that I am still reading this kind of book, otherwise the students will laugh me to death! It's been a week, but the conflict between my father and me still hasn't been resolved. Readers, who can give us a good prescription?
绝不能让同学看到了我还在看这种书，要不然同学们会笑死我的!这事已经过去一个星期了，但我和爸爸之间的矛盾还是没有化解掉，各位小读者们，谁能给我们这俩父子出个好药方?
本回答被网友采纳Life always have to experience all kinds of contradictions and conflicts. When the conflict happens, it's hard to calm down, only after things began to regret his behavior. I remember when I was a child and father played conflict. But after a series of events, our relationship but more better.
When I was young, the result is not good, the teacher assignments, you can quickly complete and then to the play, and I can only listen to their laughter. A father back I rushed up to let dad topic, and sometimes his father to think, really not, he can only smile said: "the problem I will not ah, in my mind he can..." And said some I listen to don't understand something, but often it is in he said no he impatiently says; "you don't? Start grew up playing with children, do not concentrate on school attendance,! You will not that even, the next question!" heard this, he still don't give up: "today must take after listening to this problem and then write down the answers, tomorrow to listen to the teacher speak." He said several times I still listen to dads will annoy: "you can listen to it or not! Anyway, I'm tired, since you do not listen, so go to sleep!" I was so indignant, the in the mind disdain to think: "do not speak do not speak! Tomorrow I asked the teacher to!" then angrily left. But at this time my heart will be coming to a different voice: "don't be angry the Dad might also have the wrong place, but you wrong earlier ah!" I want to apologize, but did not dare, had conceived a complex mood to go to bed. But when the night is deep can be heard mom and Dad talking: "how? And with her daughter quarrel? Her age is still small, not sensible, you should more inclusive she not??" "but she is too much!" "you don't don't you think? Not to mention today is relatively late, she is sleepy, temper is not good...... Here I suddenly loved her more, in my world as if only she could walk into. But when the next day to get up, you will see Dad dragged the body, very tired, black rim of the eye also have, but because last night I was angry that he hasn't forgive me, and put a one side: "I don't know what you look like". However, he said: "good!" I haven't responded to come over when he went.
Since then, every time I asked him problem and he won't and he is still noisy, but the second day morning and send me to school when he would be late, sometimes very dawdle. Therefore, I again times with him said: "look at the road ah! Be careful!" despite this he is still very late to sleep. Things: after I sometimes by playing computer opportunity secretly hidden in the room, although not find a reason, but I find his room is very messy desk, many drafts of paper is very chaotic, pen also misplacing in together, I saw, uneasy to catch him on the toilet quietly packed, etc. He is very surprised look, did not expect him to say: "paper? My desk? Don't fiddle with my things! They hinder to you?" "you also said that the table is in a mess, I help you to tidy up the things, you say me!"... Then sometimes noisy, I but he turned to go, the next day, father hasn't come back when I slipped into the study look at what's so important, I find an important paper. I was very surprised! Those important papers is the solution process of the problem is I don't know.
Now I can understand the good intentions of the father, and the father will not be impulsive. And he is no longer in conflict with him, there is a problem we are able to communicate well. I will study hard and live up to your work day and night.
我和爸爸的冲突
生活中总要经历各种矛盾与冲突。当冲突发生的时候，人们便很难冷静下来，只有等事情过后，才开始懊悔自己的行为。记得小时候我就和爸爸起过冲突。但是经过一系列的事件之后，我们的关系反而更加要好了。
在我很小的时候，成绩一直不好，老师布置的作业，大家都能很快地完成然后到下面玩，而我却只能听着他们的笑声。爸爸一回来我便冲上去让爸讲题，有时候爸爸也要想一想，实在不会的，他也只能笑一笑说：“这题我也不会啊，在我的大脑中他只能用……”然后开始说一些我听不懂的东西，但往往就在他说不会的时候便不耐烦地说;“你不会?一开始就从小玩到大的孩子，上课不专心听讲!你不会那就算了，下一题!”听到这话，他仍不罢休：“今天必须把这道题听完，然后写上答案，明天再听老师讲。”他说了好几次我仍不听爸爸便来气了：“你爱听不听!反正我也累了，你既然不听，那就睡觉去!”我气极了，心里不屑地想：“不讲就不讲!我明天问老师去!”然后便愤愤地离开了。但就在这时候我的心里就会传来另一个声音：“不要气了，爸爸可能也有不对的地方，但是你错在先啊!”我想去道歉，但又不敢，只好怀着复杂的心情睡觉去了。可是每当夜色较深时就能听见爸爸妈妈的谈话：“怎么了?又跟女儿吵架了?她年纪还小，不懂事，你应该多包容她不是吗?”“可是她也太过分了!”“你小时候难道不是这样吗?更何况今天也比较晚了，她也困了，脾气自然不好”……听到这里我突然更爱妈妈了，在我的世界里仿佛只有她能走进。但是每当第二天起床，就会看到爸爸拖着身子，十分劳累，黑眼圈也有了，但是由于我昨晚生气了，认为他还没原谅我，便摆出一副：“不认识你的样子”，然而他却说：“好!”当我还没反应过来时他便走了。
此后，每次我问他题而他也不会时我和他依然吵吵闹闹，不过到第二天早上送我上学的时他就会起的较晚，有时还十分磨蹭，为此，我再一次跟他说：“看路呀!小心!”尽管这样他仍会很晚才睡。以后我有时会借玩电脑的机会偷偷潜伏在房间里，虽然没又找到原因，但是我找到了他房间十分乱的证明：书桌上，许多草稿纸放的很乱，笔也乱放在一起，我看见了，不安乘他上厕所的机会悄悄收拾好，正等他十分惊讶的表情时，没想到他说：“纸呢?我桌上的东西呢?不要乱动我的东西!他们碍到你了吗?”“你还说，桌上那么乱，我帮你收拾了东西，你还说我!”……随后有时吵吵闹闹，我超不过他便扭头走了，第二天，等爸爸还没回来时我便溜进书房看看什么那么重要，等我找出重要的纸时，我惊讶极了!那些重要的纸是我不会的题的解答过程。
现在我已经能够明白爸爸的良苦用心了，不会再和爸爸意气用事了。也不再和他起冲突了，有了问题我们都能够很好地交流和沟通。我会努力学习的，不辜负您日夜地工作。本回答被网友采纳